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Real
Love in Marriage:
The Truth About
Finding Genuine Happiness Now and Forever
Marriages
fail not because of a lack of commitment,
or poor communication, or even the conflicts
that occur over money, sex, children, and
household duties. Marriages fail because
both partners originally came together
without enough of that one element—Real Love—most
essential to healthy relationships. Without
Real Love, marriages are guaranteed to
founder in expectations, demands, disappointment,
and anger.
No matter how many wounds have been inflicted in a marriage, they can all
be healed with the consistent application of Real Love, giving both partners
the sense of fulfillment and joy they’ve always wanted.
There are no quick solutions to ‘fixing’ a
marriage. A great marriage is not a technique.
What is required is a firm commitment on
the part of one or both partners to change
who they are individually. We learn to
be loving, and a richly rewarding marriage
is a natural result of each spouse independently
learning to make loving decisions.
Most
people use marriage as a weapon to force their partners to give them
what they want. Marriage is really a lifelong commitment to stay with
your partner while you learn how to unconditionally love him or her.
What
we need is not to manage conflict in a marriage but to eliminate it
entirely, which is quite possible as we diligently apply the principles
of Real Love.
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